Thanks, Gee. I have spoken with bossie's boss's assistant, my mentor and a couple of others and all have assured me that it is bossie's issue, not mine. The OTHER bossie is very good and involves and trusts me to a high degree, and overall I like the organization so I have no intention of leaving.

Bossie is just very much not like me, I guess, and I have to just keep on doing what I'm doing, so says everyone here. But I'd like to not be nervous and incompetent while I do that!