Jade, the thought has struck me--in reading all the things she is doing, it seems to me that she WANTS to be overheard, that her actions are calculated and deliberate, e.g., she WANTED you to hear about the job offer she made.
I understand that she may be one of those people who are too dense to realize how their actions and conversations are taken. However, there is the flip side as well. I've seen and had to deal with both.
It does open up an entirely different can of worms, as well as a whole new set of speculations about motive and sanity.
You've gotten very good advice. Good luck and keep us posted as you are able.
