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smssilva
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« Reply #15 on: August 25, 2005, 04:16:27 pm »

I read this post and thought...not for me ...don't wear mini-shirts to work...and rarelly wear skirts at all. I think you must dress in clothes that you like  that don't draw attention for the wrong reasons.

But what about clivagge? when is it to much??
I tend to dress up un the office...except on friday when its casual day and everybody wears jeans. Because i have a short neck I always wear clothes with V necks etc. My breast are not small...on the contrary. But I never felt unconfortable...(except once when i wore a blouse that opened between the buttons. I was totally unaware until the the guy in the meeting stoped in the middle of a sentance when I was serving him coofee. Never wore that blouse again....)

So..what do you think is too much clivagge?

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« Reply #16 on: August 25, 2005, 04:18:38 pm »

To get back to the original question, I'd say two inches above the knee would be the limit.  I did hear someone once say that a straight skirt should look like a VERTICAL rectangle on the body, not a HORIZONTAL one.

I used to work in an office attached to a warehouse.  As the sole female, I could pretty much do what I wanted clothingwise, but in that particular business, I'd have looked quite silly in a dressy suit and heels -- not to mention the safety issue it would raise on the warehouse floor.  I usually wore khakis with a turtleneck or sweater in the winter and a collared knit shirt in the summer.  Always with flat, rubber-soled shoes.

When I moved to a university setting, I wore dressier slacks and blouses.  But my job was still very much a hands-on position -- and I constantly had my arms in the bowels of the office equipment clearing jams, cleaning spilled toner, etc.  

Now I'm in a more medical-centered environment and I still wear slacks and blouses but usually try to throw on a jacket.  I did break down and buy two suits (gotta love Kohl's clearance racks!) that are machine washable.  

Of course, my secret weapon is my single strand of pearls that can dress up ANYTHING!

To answer smsilva's post:  Sometimes "cleavege happens."  But I DO wish some of the women around here would find a proper bra to wear underneath!  

Edited by didface on 25/08/05 04:21 PM.

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« Reply #17 on: August 25, 2005, 06:35:40 pm »

I have to watch this myself, since I'm...rather blessed with a lot on top. I pin or otherwise fasten shirts that open so far down that they reveal. Some of my shirts gap in front because shirts aren't made for women with breasts, so I either pin or sew them closed (depends on if I can pull the shirt on over my head or not). I figure I'm not there to display it to all the world. Occasionally we have a gaping shirt problem and I have observed male co-workers observing that, so I try to be vigilant.

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« Reply #18 on: August 25, 2005, 06:47:15 pm »

Dettu...I totally relate..and also sew or pin the shirt! :-)

Who designs them anyway?

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« Reply #19 on: August 25, 2005, 08:36:16 pm »

I'm with y'all who have problems with gaping shirts.  I simply love pull-over shirts, because I don't have to worry about them gaping between buttons (or of buttons slipping open because of too much tension applied to them).  I really wish that folks who designed some of these shirts take into consideration women who are bustier.  Plus sizes are cut a bit larger in that area, but also in all other areas and you lose the contoured fit of the shirt after a certain size.  If I'm not taking shirts in, to make them more fitted (after buying them large enough to go around my chest), then I'm thinking of designing an accessory to buttons -- something that slips behind those little pearl - or other decorative - buttons that makes them wider and less-likely to slip out the buttonholes.

Most of the time I don't have a problem with cleavage, as I don't wear many shirts that are cut lower than 1-2 buttons down on a button-down shirt.  My exception?  One of my pregnancy shirts was almost indecent, and that was after I pinned it where it needed to be.  The problem was the type of material it was (stretchy under it's own weight), the size of it (turned out to be a size too big for me, but I couldn't return it -- and otherwise loved it), and my bras, which tended to act almost like a push-up when least needed.  I think overall, that cleavage may 'just happen' and if that's the case, it's probably not too much, but if you look at yourself in the mirror and think "wow, that's cleavage", then it's probably not something to wear to work.

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« Reply #20 on: August 25, 2005, 09:32:30 pm »

Ok, here's my take on it all.

If you are standing in front of your mirror dressed in something and you are unsure about whether you should wear it to work, you should take it off and put on something you are sure about.

That's a good rule of thumb.  If you are querying whether you should be wearing something for a particular event, then it's the wrong outfit.

Cleavage - nothing wrong with it, after all, we are given that part of our body for a reason, but there's a time and place to show it off.  There's nothing wrong with a bit of cleavage, but if your tops are plunging low, they're for a nightclub or other place, but not an office.

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« Reply #21 on: August 26, 2005, 08:41:56 pm »

smssilva--who designs them? Men! They don't have that gaping shirt problem!

I just saw the CEO's secretary go by wearing capri pants, a shirt with the shirttails hanging out, and sandals.

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