Message #58225

[geminigirl]

Dettu - you've had really great advice here from Raindance and DiamondLady.  I can't really add to that but I would say that managing to keep a calm head - and demeanour - whilst everyone else is going crazy is going to help you a lot.  Not only that, I think it will have a positive effect on everyone else.

Nothing is worse than the uncertainty but, if you act calm, professional and hopefully can manage to keep a smile on your face - well, I've always found that most of the time the act can turn into reality, which will really help you and your colleagues.

I also find that the more people around me fuss and blather, the calmer I become (maybe I must send all my negative thoughts out to them!) - serenity in the midst of chaos or, rather, like the feet of a swan paddling frantically below the waterline.

Keep strong, keep cheerful (as much as you can) and remember, this is a really *great* place to rant and vent!

Good luck with everything.