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          In short, it’s a hot mess of harmfulness. It        because they believe they could’ve done
          can also take various forms, depending on           even better. But that’s neither productive nor
          a person’s background, personality, and             healthy. Owning and celebrating achievements
          circumstances. If you’re familiar with the          is essential if you want to avoid burnout, find
          feeling of waiting for those around you to “find    contentment, and cultivate self-confidence.
          you out,” it might be helpful to consider what
          type of imposter you are so you can problem-        Learn to take your mistakes in stride, viewing
          solve accordingly.                                  them as a natural part of the process. In
                                                              addition, push yourself to act before you’re

          1. The Perfectionist                                ready. Force yourself to start the project you’ve
          Perfectionism and imposter syndrome often           been planning for months. Truth is, there will
          go hand-in-hand. Think about it: Perfectionists     never be the “perfect time” and your work will
          set excessively high goals for themselves, and      never be 100% flawless. The sooner you’re
          when they fail to reach a goal, they experience     able to accept that, the better off you’ll be.
          major self-doubt and worry about measuring
          up. Whether they realize it or not, this group      2. The Superwoman/man
          can also be control freaks, feeling like if they    Since people who experience this
          want something done right, they have to do it       phenomenon are convinced they’re phonies
          themselves.                                         amongst real-deal colleagues, they often
                                                              push themselves to work harder and harder to
          Not sure if this applies to you?                    measure up. But this is just a false cover-up
          Ask yourself these questions:                       for their insecurities, and the work overload
                                                              may harm not only their own mental health,
           •  Have you ever been accused of being a           but also their relationships with others.
             micromanager?
                                                              Not sure if this applies to you?
           •  Do you have great difficulty delegating?
             Even when you’re able to do so, do you             •  Do you stay later at the office than the
             feel frustrated and disappointed in the              rest of your team, even past the point that
             results?                                             you’ve completed that day’s necessary
                                                                  work?
           •  When you miss the (insanely high) mark
             on something, do you accuse yourself               •  Do you get stressed when you’re not
             of “not being cut out” for your job and              working and find downtime completely
             ruminate on it for days?                             wasteful?

           •  Do you feel like your work must be 100%           •  Have you left your hobbies and passions
             perfect, 100% of the time?                           fall by the wayside, sacrificed to work?


          For this type, success is rarely satisfying           •  Do you feel like you haven’t truly earned






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